In Episode 27 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston of The Eggleston Law Firm speak with Jessica Waite, a graduate counseling student at Texas State University. Jessica shares her powerful story of growing up as a child of divorce in Central Texas and how it shaped her path toward becoming a therapist.
This week’s featured drink is a Pineapple Coconut Margarita, the perfect blend of bold flavor and emotional depth—just like this episode.
Growing Up in Dripping Springs: Jessica’s Story On a Child’s View of Divorce
Jessica was raised in a reconstructed barn in Dripping Springs, TX, a unique childhood marked by both charm and emotional challenge. Her parents’ fiery relationship eventually ended in divorce when she was 13.
She vividly remembers her father’s quiet goodbye—a symbolic moment that marked the beginning of her journey navigating emotional uncertainty, self-doubt, and deep personal reflection.
How Therapy Gave Her a Voice to a Child’s View of Divorce
Now training to become a counselor, Jessica specializes in narrative therapy, a form of treatment that allows individuals to separate themselves from their problems and reframe the way they see their stories.
“Even good parents can unintentionally burden their children during divorce,” Jessica explains.
She encourages parents to give their children room to process emotions without judgment or pressure—and reminds them that kids often understand more than they reveal.
Advice for Austin Parents Going Through Divorce and Understanding a Child’s View of Divorce
Based on both lived experience and academic training, Jessica offers essential tips for divorcing parents:
- Kids feel more than they say – Always assume your child is processing the changes, even if you don’t fully know the child’s view on divorce
- Leave the door open – Make sure kids know it’s safe to talk, even months later
- Get neutral support – Counseling can give children a safe space to share their truth
- Don’t overshare – Avoid using your child as emotional support during legal disputes
Whether you’re divorcing in Austin, Dripping Springs, Round Rock, or Cedar Park, her message is clear: empathy and communication matter most.
Why This Episode Matters in the Austin Family Law Landscape
Jessica’s insights are more than personal—they’re educational for understanding a child’s view of divorce:
- Family law attorneys navigating custody and visitation cases
- Divorcing parents trying to protect their child’s emotional well-being
- Counselors and teachers observing behavioral shifts
- Therapists working with children of divorce
At The Eggleston Law Firm in Austin, TX, we believe that family law isn’t just about court orders—it’s about people. Especially the smallest ones affected by big changes.
Local Perspective, Lasting Impact
Jessica’s journey from Dripping Springs to grad school in San Marcos is a Central Texas story, filled with emotion, insight, and hope. And as her story shows, the right support during a divorce can shape a child’s path for life.
Need Guidance on Protecting Your Child During Divorce?
Contact The Eggleston Law Firm in Austin for compassionate legal representation that prioritizes your child’s emotional well-being. We’re here to help families across Austin, Dripping Springs, and beyond.
FAQ – Helping Children Through Divorce in Austin, TX
1. How can parents support their children emotionally during a divorce?
Give them space, offer therapy, and let them know it’s okay to talk—but only when they’re ready.
2. Is therapy helpful for children going through divorce?
Yes. A neutral therapist can help kids process emotions in a safe, nonjudgmental environment.
3. Should I tell my child everything happening in the divorce?
No. Avoid oversharing or using them for emotional support—children need boundaries.
4. Can kids hide their feelings during divorce?
Absolutely. Children often suppress emotions to avoid upsetting either parent.
5. What makes The Eggleston Law Firm unique for families in Austin?
We focus not just on legal strategy—but on protecting children’s emotional health during custody and divorce cases.
